levnubhin

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You can just vote to protect your identity and answer.

Edit: If your not married or haven't been for more than a year, go home!


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TonyV

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dude, whats wrong with you?

Obviously no one really feels like that, its a comedy routine. Im very surprised a married man like you would be so disrespectful towards the sanctity of marriage. Your poor wife man.

levnubhin

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lmao, you might as well have written that skit for him.
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TonyV

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nuh uh, dude me and wifey are in looooooooove.

i know this because per C.R., "if you aint never bought a shovel, bought a bag, practiced your aliby in the mirror, and the only thing that stopped you from killing a ************ was an episode of CSI, you aint never been in love"

So I am obviously very much in love thank you very much

Saml01

iTrader: (9)

^oh snap



But Rock is wrong, on a few fronts. You can be in control, you can win arguments, you can make sense.

sixshooter

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You chose wrong.
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levnubhin

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lmao, who was that for?
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Saml01

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God he curses so ******* much, god damn mother ******.

levnubhin

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You just wait and see.
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TonyV

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Sam, dude i dun told u, report back after yr 3 of marriage lol

sixshooter

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Whoever chose a wife that made him feel that way. That's why you get to choose one and they aren't just assigned to you. You should choose a wife that wants you to be happy because they aren't selfish and they respect and love you. If you sold yourself short on that one, the horn's for you.

Cliffs: Don't whine if you choose a bitch. You had a choice.

levnubhin

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They're ALL like that in the BEGINNING lol.
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TonyV

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seems like ALOT of married guys i talk to are having a hard time adjusting, so what was your secret to chosing the right wife?

sixshooter

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Yeah, and it's hard to wear the pants when you drive a Miata.

levnubhin

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lol
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sixshooter

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Don't think that she will change into what you were hoping for just because you get married. And make sure that she is mature enough psychologically that she understands that you will not be changing from a duck (Joe Perez always comes up when I think of ducks now) into a swan just because you have a ring on your finger. Date for a long time before getting married and these things will come out. People who get married after two years of dating really don't know each other yet either. We dated for five years. All of the shiny wore off of the relationship and neither of us was going to be disillusioned with the other after that. There were no surprises left about what we were getting.

The other thing to remember is that most people ignore the warning signs of a bitch when they are dating. Then they wonder why they have one after they marry her. If she is petty and selfish when you are dating, guess what? And if she treats waiters and waitresses like ****, she will do the same to you later. If she is catty and vindictive towards others sometimes, you are next.

If she was raised in a home where the father was not respected by the mother then she will likely not respect you. That behavior was modeled for her as the example of how a family should operate and how the husband (or ex-husband) should be treated. If they always fought, then she might think that fighting is normal between couples. If the father was respected and loved by the mother, then she will more likely expect to do the same for you.

If her parents spoiled her and she got everything she wanted you are fucked. Run away. I don't care how hot she is or how well she gives head. Run.

If she sucks with her own finances she will **** yours, too.

If she is irresponsible don't expect a partner you can count on.

If she's a little heavy, she'll be a lot heavy.

At some point after enough time has passed realism sets in and the fairy tale is exposed as a lie and you are able to get on with creating a better reality instead of escaping from it or searching for it. The searching will ruin you through infidelity. The escaping will ruin you through drink and/or drugs. Building a better reality to wake up in every day will make you happy forever and more successful if you are both working towards it.

I am a better person because she has so much self respect and drive, that it makes me want to be better than I would be on my own. I want to be worthy of her, because she sets the bar so high for herself. And she respects me and wants me to be successful and fulfilled. Some of her friends are jealous of their husbands having a good time. They are selfish bitches. My wife tells me she wants me to enjoy my life and the opportunities I have to do things.



You have a choice. Choose wisely. [/lecture]

sixshooter

iTrader: (12)

I've been thinking since I posted about how preachy that sounded. I apologize for that.

Savington

iTrader: (31)

Why is divorce so expensive?


























































Because it's worth it.

rleete

iTrader: (21)

I agree. I dated my wife for about 2 years, including a fairly long-distance part for over a year. Also, I was 35 (she was 25), and so we were already past a lot of the immature stuff.

And vice versa. Marriage is a partnership. If you can't compromise on most of the issues (even just agreeing to disagree on some stuff) you won't last.

She is, but has gotten better; I've also learned to be less of a tightwad. Compromise both ways. And I knew she'd gain some weight (the mother is a good gauge), but I'm okay with that, as long as she doesn't expect me to be Adonis either.

Being older, I was more sure what I wanted out of life, and what type of person I wanted to spend it with me. I also am a firm believer that when you say a vow, in front of witnesses, you'd better intend to keep it. Part of that vow was for better or worse, until death do us part. I made pretty damn sure I was willing to keep that vow before I made it.

I have to say that so far, it's been a fairly good ride. 13 years and counting.

TonyV

iTrader: (17)

^lmFao @ sav



sixshooter u sound like u know a thing or two...how old r u, how long u been married?
some damn good advice, listen up people!!!