so my girlfriend lied...
#85
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You're a dumb ------ and girls are going to continue to cheat on you until you become a man, **** them like a viking, and gain some dignity. Remember when you were all butt-hurt because I was mean to you on the internet and you wanted to call me and talk about it??? That's exactly why she cheated on you. ******* relax, become a man, and you'll be rewarded...you'll probably have to wait until you're 30 for this to happen though.
#94
I wish I had "met" hustler when I was your age.
I'm 28 now, and a lot **** about really being a man is finally starting to click.
Whatever you do don't jump from crummy relationship to what you think is an ideal one. Don't even have relationships.
In my experience people that look for relationships are doomed to be unhappy in them. Let the relationship find you. If you're smart that won't be for another 5 yrs...and it won't get serious for another 10.
Every bit of advice you are getting in this thread is from guys that were once just like you...and look back knowing what we really should have done.
Don't worry about disrespecting females...the real ladies will grab your attention and get your respect instinctively if you were brought up right. Until then don't bend over backwards emasculating yourself just to be the nice guy. The right girl will see the nice guy in you regardless of how much of a jerk you are. But all the dumb bitches will see someone to toy around with in the meantime if you let them.
Be smart...be a man. "Oh...I'm a man...I'm 18...yadeyada>" **** no you're not...you're the scared shitless little punk we all were 10yrs ago...******* clueless about how to get ahead in the world and how to really be happy and content with your life. Live with it...accepting it is the start to making it better.
And here's step one:
Don't take **** from anyone that is *supposed to care about you.
Come back in two years and I'll give you the next step. But don't start a friggin' thread about it. I have a theory about why people talk so much, especially about personal matters. You are trying to make it acceptable. You feel like if you tell someone...and they don't give you a directive to change that part of your life...then you can and should keep taking it, or that it's normal or morally acceptable. Only problem is no one really gives a ****...and hardly anyone that does will speak up about it anyways. I hear people talk about unreal life situations that I wouldn't stand for for a second...but I don't say "hey ----...drop that ____"...and that person keeps putting up with it. Don't normalize crummy situations.
Keep your problems to yourself. It's all VERY CLEAR what you should do when you just keep it in your head. Stick to your convictions...and decide for YOURSELF what to do in your life.
Be a man.
#97
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gospeed91, thanks dude. i think you've summed up what everyone was trying to say clearly. doppelganger, as long as nobody keeps posting im done wit it anyways. im over her house right now ****** her like the ***** she is, and im going to tell her im moving on from her.