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Old 10-31-2006, 07:38 PM
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Default so, what do you do when your GF dumps you???

First GF ever dumped me. I feel like S@it. Been going out for 1 3/4 year almost. Was thinking about taking the next step soon "the question". LOL a month ago i caught the garter at a wedding and she caught the bouquet.

Doesnt look like we will mend things this time :(



on another note I signed for an autoX this weekend and I think i will double enter all day an play
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Sorry to hear that, it's never easy.

Maybe take up a new hobby such as investing?
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no it really is never easy when you have a lot of time and money into a relationship and it all seems to disappear on you but if it's really over there isn't much you can do but just keep yourself busy. usually when you least expect it someone totally great will walk into your life and you'll wonder why you were ever so bummed before.
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Personally, I call up the best looking single girl I can find in my cellphone and go play some pool. Then I figure out my finances, invest in something similar to Jefe's idea or my car and make sure I go out at every chance possible. Almost makes me wish my g/f would dump me every couple months just so i could go out and do that. lol
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Sounds like it is time to buy a new toy for the Miata.
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Originally Posted by Pitlab77
First GF ever dumped me. I feel like S@it. Been going out for 1 3/4 year almost. Was thinking about taking the next step soon "the question". LOL a month ago i caught the garter at a wedding and she caught the bouquet.

Doesnt look like we will mend things this time :(



on another note I signed for an autoX this weekend and I think i will double enter all day an play
I feel for you... therapy is available here:

www.plentyoffish.com

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Or you should come up to Cookeville and I'll set you up with a wild 6' blond women's NCAA volleyball player that would be more than sufficient in handling just about any man's woes. If that doesn't suffice I know of atleast 3 different Halloween parties going on with all kinds of sexy Nurses, Cops, Stuartesses, Firewomen, and a couple fairies most likely.

Edit: All of those costumes inhabited by beautiful women of course. (Just making sure there is no confusion of interest.)
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I am 2 months out of a two year relationship. I miss the sex more than probably anything else. we still see eachother from time to time though but we decided to move on. It wasnt as hard as the first long term relationship that ended after a year and a half when she dumped me out of the blue, treated me like **** all of a sudden, and started sleeping around almost immediately. Thing that hurt most was how much of a fool I was to not see her for the bitch she was.
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Oh yeah, enjoy yo-self. Ive gotten a whole lotta stuff done in the last two months because I finally have time to work on my car.
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I did a burnout in my ex's driveway at 3 am once, when I was 17.... felt strangely cleansing.....

I say forget about it..... it's not worth losing your hair over....
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or just go for a nice long top down drive at night, and listen to some of YOUR favorite music.... usually calms me down!
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Originally Posted by cjernigan
Or you should come up to Cookeville and I'll set you up with a wild 6' blond women's NCAA volleyball player that would be more than sufficient in handling just about any man's woes. If that doesn't suffice I know of atleast 3 different Halloween parties going on with all kinds of sexy Nurses, Cops, Stuartesses, Firewomen, and a couple fairies most likely.

Edit: All of those costumes inhabited by beautiful women of course. (Just making sure there is no confusion of interest.)

LOL.
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Id say drive around and spend time with the guys. Spending time with other girls will make you think about her. Go out with the boys and get fucked up.*


*Ive never been dumped so Im guessing
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Originally Posted by Loki047
... get fucked up.

Werd!
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I went to a powerman 5000 concert tonight and most of the night was kinda boring. Then i met a group of good looking 30 year old ladies (im 23 btw) and was finally enjoying myself and having a good time with them. Then a big guy comes up to me and tells me i cant take em home and **** em ... WTF???

I guess they were hoes or something, good thing i didnt get the herps or something ... well it would have been fun gettin them. Who knows, I could have been working on getting them now. Damnit ...

Whatev. thats one kind of fun you can have when you are single that you cant when you are not ... shallow, unfulfilling, degrading, and basically the best.

Oh ya, i wouldnt say that on Miata.net by the way

PSS. ya that doesnt have much to do with the thread, but it was somethign i did as a single guy and it was fun
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hell just go to the local meat market, have some drinks, find some strange, and knock the bottom out of it....


Cjer...You said Cookeville, are you up at TTU? Went to school there and lived there for a few years.
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Look at the bright side. Better now than after you popped the question. (and the bank account on a ring).

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cry and have broken-up sex (I call this the "fu*k-up buddy"). then sleep with ugly women. then swear off women altogether. then date 4 concurrently. then knock that crap off and be single and stumble upon a great girl and date her for a long time.

in other words, dont "do" anything, just live how you feel like living. wear condoms too.
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Old 11-01-2006, 11:36 AM
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Kpate yeah I'm on the Rifle team at Tech. I'm a Junior and a MIT major. I have another year and a half of school. No idea what's after that though.
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Sleep with her sister?
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