Why am I such a bitch?
#83
After 4,5 pages of butt-whipping, I'll try to actually give some encouragement:
It is a cycle. Women are programmed to get the BEST mate they can. The best mate is a mate you have to fight for. If that mate is too eager, they think they can do better. If other women are not interested in that mate, they assume something is wrong with him. Many women will claim you are a cave man when stating this, but that doesn't make it less true. My fiancée has stuck with me for 9years, btw, dispite me working 5 of those years abroad, away from her.
The trick to being confident is to know (not think, assume or hope, but know) that you are a good catch and that women wants you. That means that you can always find another one, if this one would pack up and leave. Never think you want them more then they want you. True or not? If you believe it, it is true and all you body language and your manners will say that it is true -> making it true.
This doesn't in any way mean you can be a dick. And remember: a man (a REAL man) is never ever unfaithful. He has the ***** to break up if he wants to screw around.
It is a cycle. Women are programmed to get the BEST mate they can. The best mate is a mate you have to fight for. If that mate is too eager, they think they can do better. If other women are not interested in that mate, they assume something is wrong with him. Many women will claim you are a cave man when stating this, but that doesn't make it less true. My fiancée has stuck with me for 9years, btw, dispite me working 5 of those years abroad, away from her.
The trick to being confident is to know (not think, assume or hope, but know) that you are a good catch and that women wants you. That means that you can always find another one, if this one would pack up and leave. Never think you want them more then they want you. True or not? If you believe it, it is true and all you body language and your manners will say that it is true -> making it true.
This doesn't in any way mean you can be a dick. And remember: a man (a REAL man) is never ever unfaithful. He has the ***** to break up if he wants to screw around.
#86
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Lol.
I am not you and I know not what you seek but were I a single man again there would be baseline criteria for consideration. She would be a college graduate. She would be gainfully employed in a career (not a job). She would have good manners and an appropriate level of etiquette. She would be generous and considerate of others yet be shrewd enough to avoid being misled. She would be an excellent steward of her own finances thereby demonstrating she would be good with our collective finances. She would have wisdom in her head, kindness in her eyes, sincerity in her heart, and my **** in her mouth.
#87
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Los Angeles, CA
Posts: 8,682
Total Cats: 130
Fine ere is my list of ideal criteria
Short petite frame girl b+ cup size
8 or better looks
***** like a babylonian -----
Looks like a teenager
Nonsmoker. Smokers look old.
Makes over 100k. Potential for 200k in 5 years
Exercises regularly
Has hobbies
Has friends
Is artist- visual, music, writing etc
Minimal or occasional only drug use
"experienced" emotionally
Is evil and fairly insane
Does not ever want children and is willing to put that in prenup
Likes boost
Good financial habits (no debt)
Fukking intelligent
Loves me for me, likes being abused
Find me this girl and if we work out i will seriously pay a 15k finders fee.
Short petite frame girl b+ cup size
8 or better looks
***** like a babylonian -----
Looks like a teenager
Nonsmoker. Smokers look old.
Makes over 100k. Potential for 200k in 5 years
Exercises regularly
Has hobbies
Has friends
Is artist- visual, music, writing etc
Minimal or occasional only drug use
"experienced" emotionally
Is evil and fairly insane
Does not ever want children and is willing to put that in prenup
Likes boost
Good financial habits (no debt)
Fukking intelligent
Loves me for me, likes being abused
Find me this girl and if we work out i will seriously pay a 15k finders fee.
Last edited by Faeflora; 05-10-2012 at 05:49 PM. Reason: Y8spec
#91
2 Props,3 Dildos,& 1 Cat
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Join Date: Jun 2005
Location: Fake Virginia
Posts: 19,338
Total Cats: 573
Fine ere is my list of ideal criteria
Short petite frame girl b+ cup size
8 or better looks
***** like a babylonian -----
Looks like a teenager
Nonsmoker. Smokers look old.
Makes over 100k. Potential for 200k in 5 years
Exercises regularly
Has hobbies
Has friends
Is artist- visual, music, writing etc
Minimal or occasional only drug use
"experienced" emotionally
Is evil and fairly insane
Does not ever want children and is willing to put that in prenup
Likes boost
Good financial habits (no debt)
Fukking intelligent
Find me this girl and if we work out i will seriously pay a 15k finders fee.
Short petite frame girl b+ cup size
8 or better looks
***** like a babylonian -----
Looks like a teenager
Nonsmoker. Smokers look old.
Makes over 100k. Potential for 200k in 5 years
Exercises regularly
Has hobbies
Has friends
Is artist- visual, music, writing etc
Minimal or occasional only drug use
"experienced" emotionally
Is evil and fairly insane
Does not ever want children and is willing to put that in prenup
Likes boost
Good financial habits (no debt)
Fukking intelligent
Find me this girl and if we work out i will seriously pay a 15k finders fee.
#93
Ive got whats on your list. She wont top out at 200k but everything else is there. Im 30 years old and have known her for 30 years. Its time to pass here on. Lol. No we havent been together the whole time but theres soo many other options out there Id like to try a new flavor. The thought of trading for your car is filling my head. must have...
#96
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Location: Woodland Hills, CA
Posts: 4,667
Total Cats: 18
Fine ere is my list of ideal criteria
Short petite frame girl b+ cup size
8 or better looks
***** like a babylonian -----
Looks like a teenager
Nonsmoker. Smokers look old.
Makes over 100k. Potential for 200k in 5 years
Exercises regularly
Has hobbies
Has friends
Is artist- visual, music, writing etc
Minimal or occasional only drug use
"experienced" emotionally
Is evil and fairly insane
Does not ever want children and is willing to put that in prenup
Likes boost
Good financial habits (no debt)
Fukking intelligent
Loves me for me, likes being abused
Find me this girl and if we work out i will seriously pay a 15k finders fee.
Short petite frame girl b+ cup size
8 or better looks
***** like a babylonian -----
Looks like a teenager
Nonsmoker. Smokers look old.
Makes over 100k. Potential for 200k in 5 years
Exercises regularly
Has hobbies
Has friends
Is artist- visual, music, writing etc
Minimal or occasional only drug use
"experienced" emotionally
Is evil and fairly insane
Does not ever want children and is willing to put that in prenup
Likes boost
Good financial habits (no debt)
Fukking intelligent
Loves me for me, likes being abused
Find me this girl and if we work out i will seriously pay a 15k finders fee.
#98
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Los Angeles, CA
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Ive got whats on your list. She wont top out at 200k but everything else is there. Im 30 years old and have known her for 30 years. Its time to pass here on. Lol. No we havent been together the whole time but theres soo many other options out there Id like to try a new flavor. The thought of trading for your car is filling my head. must have...
The income thing is firstly, a matter or respect. Secondly, women should support themselves. Because they can. I also like it when girls buy me things. Like laser hair removal.