female probs.....longwinded rant inside!!!
02-26-2007, 01:50 PM
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I had a long distance relationship at 18 and I went to college, my gf was still in HS. Anyway I drove my turbo GSX about 300 miles all the time to see her (round trip). In the end, it didnt work out, which in retrospect does not shock me cause I was 18. So what do I have to show for it? A ton of wasted time and about 50k miles on my GSX which I had to sell for its high *** mileage.
I pulled more *** from 18-21 then ever and I never regretted it. Even at 24 I look back and I'm like.. "wow thats alot of ***". The initial pang of missing her will soon fade. Don't sweat it, I would say you have a 5% chance of the person you meet before like.. age 21 being a future wifey. Theres so much that happens in your life from like 18-24.
I pulled more *** from 18-21 then ever and I never regretted it. Even at 24 I look back and I'm like.. "wow thats alot of ***". The initial pang of missing her will soon fade. Don't sweat it, I would say you have a 5% chance of the person you meet before like.. age 21 being a future wifey. Theres so much that happens in your life from like 18-24.
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02-26-2007, 01:56 PM
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I had a long distance relationship at 18 and I went to college, my gf was still in HS. Anyway I drove my turbo GSX about 300 miles all the time to see her (round trip). In the end, it didnt work out, which in retrospect does not shock me cause I was 18. So what do I have to show for it? A ton of wasted time and about 50k miles on my GSX which I had to sell for its high *** mileage.
I pulled more *** from 18-21 then ever and I never regretted it. Even at 24 I look back and I'm like.. "wow thats alot of ***". The initial pang of missing her will soon fade. Don't sweat it, I would say you have a 5% chance of the person you meet before like.. age 21 being a future wifey. Theres so much that happens in your life from like 18-24.
I pulled more *** from 18-21 then ever and I never regretted it. Even at 24 I look back and I'm like.. "wow thats alot of ***". The initial pang of missing her will soon fade. Don't sweat it, I would say you have a 5% chance of the person you meet before like.. age 21 being a future wifey. Theres so much that happens in your life from like 18-24.
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02-26-2007, 06:31 PM
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my gf broke up with me in Dec. Almost 2 years of dating and 3~3 1/2 of being friends
No drama for 3 months now
AutoX a lot
Hang out with friends a lot
if she wants me back my GF will come back. Do not move on just to move on but think about. For me it is still painful but It hurts a bit less everyday as I realize that she was the one that broke up with me and that should make her sad not me. And even better yet when I realize that wow other girls kinda like. I will still love her everyday of my life because she was my first GF ever. I don't know about you but I find comfort in my faith. Pray a lot, but going out with you buddies to race cars can help also haha.
Long story short if she comes back good, if not then don't go crazy thinking about her it will do you no good. It really F'd me over at work for a couple of weeks and for what.
No drama for 3 months now
AutoX a lot
Hang out with friends a lot
if she wants me back my GF will come back. Do not move on just to move on but think about. For me it is still painful but It hurts a bit less everyday as I realize that she was the one that broke up with me and that should make her sad not me. And even better yet when I realize that wow other girls kinda like. I will still love her everyday of my life because she was my first GF ever. I don't know about you but I find comfort in my faith. Pray a lot, but going out with you buddies to race cars can help also haha.
Long story short if she comes back good, if not then don't go crazy thinking about her it will do you no good. It really F'd me over at work for a couple of weeks and for what.
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02-26-2007, 07:50 PM
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damn wtf......This sounds just like what me and my current g/f 8 months into our relationship went through....to stop all the b/s she just dropped her mom and came to live with me....I lived 2 hours away from her and went to visit her often, when she turned 18 her mom began this vendetta to get rid of me.....did'nt work and carma kicked her in the ***. if they love you nobody should be able the change how they feel, not even their mothers.... but whatever I still hate my girls mom and she still hates me , my g/f does'nt give two flyin penguin ***** about what her mom has to say or tells her off wen taking cheese against me......Im happy , we are happy, if the parents try to destroy that, it will come back to haunt them.
1yr 7months later we are still toghether and content
1yr 7months later we are still toghether and content
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02-26-2007, 07:53 PM
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Aright, so i'm living in VA Beach for school, i went home last weekend to see my girfriedn (about 2.5 hours away) and everything was great. Monday morning when i took her home (17 still living with mom and im only 18 for the record) her mom started tripping out on her for something, still not even sure exactly what. anway she told me to leave (her mom) but my GF was begging me to stay close by to make sure she was ok...so i did. Well, i call her mom and try to talk to her reasonably and figure out what the hell is going on so i can atleast tell her bye before i go 3 hours away for the next two months (her mom had already taken away her phones, etc.. at this point) and she started acting like a freakin 3 year old, bitching at me, saying she was gonna call the cops b/c i was stalking her house, etc... when i had been there for 10 minutes trying to say goodbye to my girlfriend.
ANYWAY...they work stuff out over the next few days, everything gets kinda back to normal....until...last night she and her mother were going out to eat somwehere and i was on the phone with her while they were headed there....i dont even know now what brought it up but her mom said something along the lines of "he better not push his luck he still hasn't apologized to me for his sh*t monday!" so i proceed to tell christy (my GF) that i wasn't going to apologize to a 40 year old woman who started acting like a ******* 4 year old when her daughter's 18 BF was trying to make sure she was ok.....about three seconds later my GF says "well, he says he sorry" so i blow up at her....she hangs up, calls me a little while later and says it's over....if this was like a 2 week relationship, oh well, i don't give a ****, but we've been together for over two years, now i know she has alot of other stuff going on in her life, but should i just let her go, or try to fight to get her back?....i do still love her after all this though
Sorry for the long rant...just needed to get that off of my chest...i'd appreciate any advice but i understand if noone wants to try to tell me what i should do.....
(oh if it makes any difference in how you guys feel about her, she was with me when the diff went last week, and she was just as upset, if not more, than i was about it!!!)
ANYWAY...they work stuff out over the next few days, everything gets kinda back to normal....until...last night she and her mother were going out to eat somwehere and i was on the phone with her while they were headed there....i dont even know now what brought it up but her mom said something along the lines of "he better not push his luck he still hasn't apologized to me for his sh*t monday!" so i proceed to tell christy (my GF) that i wasn't going to apologize to a 40 year old woman who started acting like a ******* 4 year old when her daughter's 18 BF was trying to make sure she was ok.....about three seconds later my GF says "well, he says he sorry" so i blow up at her....she hangs up, calls me a little while later and says it's over....if this was like a 2 week relationship, oh well, i don't give a ****, but we've been together for over two years, now i know she has alot of other stuff going on in her life, but should i just let her go, or try to fight to get her back?....i do still love her after all this though
Sorry for the long rant...just needed to get that off of my chest...i'd appreciate any advice but i understand if noone wants to try to tell me what i should do.....
(oh if it makes any difference in how you guys feel about her, she was with me when the diff went last week, and she was just as upset, if not more, than i was about it!!!)
, im sorry to hear you are going through the same **** i did for my lady.
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02-26-2007, 08:04 PM
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She's only "late" cause she's mad stressed.
If you really care, you'll do and say whatever the **** you have to, of course my advice is: Forget her. You'll be fine.
Long distance is tough dude. Real tough. Besides sucking, it usually ends badly. Best of luck though!
If you really care, you'll do and say whatever the **** you have to, of course my advice is: Forget her. You'll be fine.
Long distance is tough dude. Real tough. Besides sucking, it usually ends badly. Best of luck though!
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02-26-2007, 09:34 PM
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Don't worry about it. If she is serious about wanting the relationship to work, she wouldn't ditch you over such trivial bullshit and SHE will call YOU to kiss and make up.
If that doesn't happen in about a week or so, move on and start hitting the local tail.
If that doesn't happen in about a week or so, move on and start hitting the local tail.
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02-26-2007, 09:45 PM
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For the 18 year old in this thread (or younger), remember two important issues.
One if you break up with her, wait till after her period (so you know youre not the daddy)
Two, never be the first **** thats a can of worms you don't want
I had sex with a girl freshman year of highschool and to this day I could walk up to her, tell her I love her and she would marry me, bear in mind its been at least 6 years.
One if you break up with her, wait till after her period (so you know youre not the daddy)
Two, never be the first **** thats a can of worms you don't want
I had sex with a girl freshman year of highschool and to this day I could walk up to her, tell her I love her and she would marry me, bear in mind its been at least 6 years.
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02-26-2007, 09:54 PM
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For the 18 year old in this thread (or younger), remember two important issues.
One if you break up with her, wait till after her period (so you know youre not the daddy)
Two, never be the first **** thats a can of worms you don't want
I had sex with a girl freshman year of highschool and to this day I could walk up to her, tell her I love her and she would marry me, bear in mind its been at least 6 years.
One if you break up with her, wait till after her period (so you know youre not the daddy)
Two, never be the first **** thats a can of worms you don't want
I had sex with a girl freshman year of highschool and to this day I could walk up to her, tell her I love her and she would marry me, bear in mind its been at least 6 years.
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02-26-2007, 10:08 PM
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Walk away.
You will remember her for a long time, maybe for life, but walk away now.
Her mom is a headcase and that's hereditary, even if it's latent now. You now have a golden opportunity to leave and be guilt-free. You WILL find something better, someone worth spending your life with.
WALK AWAY NOW.
You will remember her for a long time, maybe for life, but walk away now.
Her mom is a headcase and that's hereditary, even if it's latent now. You now have a golden opportunity to leave and be guilt-free. You WILL find something better, someone worth spending your life with.
WALK AWAY NOW.
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