Faeflora

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So. Faefae went to it's first strip club tonight. Fae's baller liquor promotor frined took it to the club and got a table. And a bunch of dances. And then a lap dance.

Faefae did not approve. Faefae felt like a dirty **** especially for the lap dance. Damn the girl was cute. But. Even though Faefae's friend was paying for the dance, faefae felt that it's sexuality was being bought. Disapprove. Girl was fine as hell. Best strip club in the state. The girl even had braces which is automatic +2 points in Faefae's book. Girl ground over Faefae's wenis and well, **** you. That's wonderful, but not if money is being exchanged for attention, particularly sexual attention. I asked girls to dance fro me like they were retarded but they still danced like they were ******* strippers. I asked them for fresh moves because I go-go dance and cage dance for drinks/money on occasion, but all they showed me was crawl around look at my **** strippper ****. **** you. Frankly, if I saw braces girl at bar/club/party I would have been like WAHZHAAUP HO LES U N I MAK BABBY i would have no problem approaching her but blech instead i iindirectly paid for her attention.

I know I am not the only guy to feel this way. I have nothing against strippers, I mean, earlier this week I did sleep with two strippers at the same time because of my ***** breakup--- they are both friends (roommates with each other ftw) and god they are hot. But. As a male, I seriously do not believe in paying bitches for my sexual exploitation or sexual satisfaction. It's just degrading.

What do you think. I know there have to be some semi conservative fagbuckets out there. Please uh gooby ples.

triple88a

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Next time try a lap dance from a guy?

I agree on the degrading feeling though, to some people paying for it doesn't feel right. I know I can never look at a girl that way.

tasty danish

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I think you're thinking about it too much personally.

Who do you think it degrades? The girl who chose the work and gets paid hella money for it?

I've dated a couple strippers, and after what I've been through with them, I have no real concern or sympathy for them. They're hustlers, and you're a mark. You moment you walked in they painted a red dot on your forehead and they'll take you for all of yo' **** too.

I have a good time at strip clubs, but it's always from a side-show, me and my best friend showering money on a girl that bounces her *** kind of perspective, like a rap video. Don't go into it from too much of a sexual perspective or you'll feel the way you did.

Yes I think the girls are hot and it's a turn on, but really, it's fun to go with friends and raise hell, spit some game, hear her bullshit excuses, watch the chicks reaction when my girl propositions her, etc etc. NOT about sexual satisfaction.

nitrodann

Its degrading to a bloke who normally doesnt have to pay for hot ladies attention.

Dann

tasty danish

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Huh? You voluntarily walk in there and now it's degrading to you, Mr, "I have all teh hoez?" No one made you go. I don't pay for the attention of women and I don't find it degrading, and I've had more than my share. Besides the attention you get there, isn't the type of attention you'd ACTUALLY want from these girls.

So you're telling me the first time you walked into a strip club, the girl said "that'll be $20" and you were like... THIS IS PREPOSTEROUS!!!"

You sound like a dweeb.

triple88a

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See, hes putting the ***** up on the pedestal.

tasty danish

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troo troo

Erat

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But Faeeee, they're working their way through college. Didn't you know? Help fund that education brotha.

nitrodann

Danish, Im saying that it feels a bit lame that you are paying for, it, like you cannot get it without the pay. Its self degrading to do it.

I dont have to pay for it, and If I did it would feel a bit pathetic internally. Not that it is, it just feels that way.

Dann

triple88a

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You're looking at it the wrong way. Its not that you cant get it for free, its a different type of adventure just like watching a movie or whatever other entertainment you choose to have. Now if you pay for it because you cant get it elsewhere then you're degrading your self.

nitrodann

how is it different? Picking up a girl at her work is a different challenge but a paid for lap dance isnt a different adventure. Its like paying for a drive day when you own a race prep and driving instruction business.

Dann

tasty danish

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If you think I get the same type of thrills out of "makin it rain trick" while slamming drinks with my friends that I do from picking up a girl and painting the map of Japan all over the back of dat ***, you're delusional.
I'd rather go to the track and do the damn thing, but I'll still have a beer at my buddy's house and help him put his new turbo together.

Have you ever actually gone to a strip club and raised a little hell? I have NEVER, EVER, been sitting on a saturday night like, "man, I'm super horny, i need some tang... OH I GOT AN IDEA, LETS GO PAY TOO MUCH FOR LAP DANCES!"

come on dogg...

nitrodann

I see what you are saying. im just explaining how OP is saying that its degrading, I dont think hes talking about for the ladies, and I can relate.

Dann

tasty danish

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It just seems weird to me how you can call something degrading that no one made or even asked/expected you to do.

triple88a

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Maybe I misread him but I believe hes saying its degrading to the women.

thirdgen

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Don't feel sympathy for them...they don't feel it when they take your money. The strip club experience is all for fun and games.

Vashthestampede

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Strip clubs are for getting shitfaced and having fun. I haven't gone in years, but I used to go to a few choice places regularly.

I've gone with friends that have dropped tons of money, leaving with nothing but memories they can now jerk off to. Meanwhile, I sit at the table with a bunch of $1's and enjoy myself, get a lap dance and usually go home to a girl in my bed. lol

I'd always get a lap dance from the hottest girl in the place, but if they were just OK, then I passed. I'd say 9/10 times if I saw any of them outside of the strip club and I wasn't plastered I'd pass, but you know how that goes.

Paying strippers to take off their clothes and rub up on your "wenis" is completely acceptable bro. My personal rule is just don't take them home (which also means don't **** them in the parking lot either).

They're in there by choice. Nobody told them they had to be a stripper. So just try and enjoy it next time.

y8s

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i am torn about the subject.

on the one hand, they love their job because it makes them money so they can buy the trashiest home wares they can afford. like big cerwin vega speakers and ****. and fuzzy underwear.

and on the other hand, they did not necessarily choose the job. they were raised incorrectly or got into something stupid and learned that it was acceptable somehow to foist your boobies into someone's face for money.

so in summary and only half done with today's coffee:

most strippers are stuck in the job for reasons like being "hotter than they are smart" but probably a few actually enjoy it and do not have weird attention and daddy issues. the rest are just exploiting their goodies so they can move on to something more, uh, professional.

Faeflora

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I meant that i found it to be degrading to the MEN. After all the girls are the ones gettin paid quite well.

Then again, i suppose if you treat it like sideshow that is totally harmless.

I suppose i was in kinda a vulnerable spot too with my recent breakup and all. Yes my relationship with insane cokehead is finally over.

I guess i just didnt like the lap dance cus i was actuslly turned on and like well, now what -_- I am a little bit of a control freak and typically i am the one who fucs with girls and doesnt give them an inch of my sexuality until i am giving them... all the inches of my sexuality. Felt i did not have all the cards in that experience.

Faeflora

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I have known MANY strippers... Which is why i went to professional singles speed dating last night. To try to see someone who wasnt quite as um broken.

Strippers are a real mixed bag. Some are hardcore addicts. Some just like drugs. Some have great lives. Some dont. Some girls it **** with their soul. Others drink up mens pockets and attention like it were blood. Some girls use it as a tool for real prositution. Some are mostly faithful to their boyfriends.

Final thing. At the end of the night i challenged three girls to a contest. $20 to who could slap me the hardest. That was pretty fun i suppose. I caused a scene. Next time i will offer $20 more if i can slap them back just as hard. That will make things much more interesting.