How (and why) to Ramble on your goat sideways
02-07-2012, 09:40 AM
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Why the fuck do I feel so burnt out on everything lately? Everything just seems so stagnant...my car, my "relationship", school, finances.....I feel like my boat's engine died and I'm stuck with one paddle just going in circles, not sinking, but not moving either. Something's gotta give...
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02-07-2012, 09:42 AM
Does he have any legitimate workplace authority over you? If not, just tell him you're not interested in talking to him any more. Better yet, make the request in writing so when he continues to harass you, there's a record.
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02-07-2012, 09:47 AM
At least someone wants your company when you're at home....all I get are cats piling up on me when I sit down.
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02-07-2012, 10:18 AM
Hussie - We have a couple "ex law enforcement" guys that come by the shop every now and then. One I even work with sometimes because he has his own concrete pumping business.
I usually ignore them when they talk and let everything go in one ear and out the other. They arent tuff, but they want to be. Therefore, they dont bother me. If they were actually "tuff" and talking ----, then we'd have a problem.
Otherwise they eventually go away after everyone's had a earful of their boasting. I'll join in on the most boring conversation going on at the moment JUST to avoid having to listen to the clown.
Doppel - The BEST thing you can do is remove the cats from the home. See, women like men that act like men. Real men dont cuddle up on the couch with cats. Although a women may be accepting of this initially, she will eventually grow tired of it.
If your having issues now in your current "relationship" then that's proof enough. If you end up single again and start dating, kiss any serious chance at a women goodbye. You'll become that guy that sits at home with his cats at night. At that point you may as well start going to the gay bars and taking the cats with you.
I usually ignore them when they talk and let everything go in one ear and out the other. They arent tuff, but they want to be. Therefore, they dont bother me. If they were actually "tuff" and talking ----, then we'd have a problem.
Otherwise they eventually go away after everyone's had a earful of their boasting. I'll join in on the most boring conversation going on at the moment JUST to avoid having to listen to the clown.
Doppel - The BEST thing you can do is remove the cats from the home. See, women like men that act like men. Real men dont cuddle up on the couch with cats. Although a women may be accepting of this initially, she will eventually grow tired of it.
If your having issues now in your current "relationship" then that's proof enough. If you end up single again and start dating, kiss any serious chance at a women goodbye. You'll become that guy that sits at home with his cats at night. At that point you may as well start going to the gay bars and taking the cats with you.
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02-07-2012, 10:49 AM
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I think this is one of those great examples where ex-law enforcement badass thinks he gets to tell the guy in the little Miata what to do. Imagine if you walked from you office to another department and ask, "DO YOU HAVE A PROBLEM!?!?!?!" You'd be fired. Not here of course, this is the Federal government...we apparently have extremely low standards.
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02-07-2012, 11:25 AM
Doppel - The BEST thing you can do is remove the cats from the home. See, women like men that act like men. Real men dont cuddle up on the couch with cats. Although a women may be accepting of this initially, she will eventually grow tired of it.
If your having issues now in your current "relationship" then that's proof enough. If you end up single again and start dating, kiss any serious chance at a women goodbye. You'll become that guy that sits at home with his cats at night. At that point you may as well start going to the gay bars and taking the cats with you.
Meh.
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02-07-2012, 11:49 AM
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Huslet you are soung the right thing by making it formal. I dont know if uou are q contractor or fed but the beaurocracy is great for harrassment studf like this.
If you play tour cards right and do things by the book you may be able to aet yourself up for a lucrative lawauit.
I am serious.
If you play tour cards right and do things by the book you may be able to aet yourself up for a lucrative lawauit.
I am serious.
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02-08-2012, 10:13 AM
Well. I may have re-injured my freshly healed, broken ---- of a hand. Working with my bro and dad can get crazy sometimes, and 7am this morning once things got heated I took 3 shots at the solid metal door. 3 hard shots.
Now my middle finger has a ski slop drop to it and I have a feeling something inside is no good. We dont have much for medical supplies, so there's no ice or advil to take. Thankfully I had 2 bandages left to stop the bleeding.
I wish there was a way I could have a rational thought before I swing at ----. Like "last time this happened I had $20k worth of surgery.....maybe I shouldnt". With no insurance either I cant really afford to go have it looked it, so hopefully its ok.
I will not hit solid objects.
I will not hit solid objects.
I will not hit solid objects.
Now my middle finger has a ski slop drop to it and I have a feeling something inside is no good. We dont have much for medical supplies, so there's no ice or advil to take. Thankfully I had 2 bandages left to stop the bleeding.
I wish there was a way I could have a rational thought before I swing at ----. Like "last time this happened I had $20k worth of surgery.....maybe I shouldnt". With no insurance either I cant really afford to go have it looked it, so hopefully its ok.
I will not hit solid objects.
I will not hit solid objects.
I will not hit solid objects.
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02-08-2012, 10:42 AM
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CAS fell out of the daily today, the alignment bolt thingy backed-out. That sucked, I could not get the teeth in the groove for about 30-minutes, and it was 35* and windy. Fail fail fail.
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02-08-2012, 12:34 PM
*Except for the fact that an unnamed party carried a bag of soil across the garage, unwittingly dumping a couple handfuls of dirt into the valve cover which was laying upside down.
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02-08-2012, 12:49 PM
Yeah I know. Unfortunately I havent felt "relaxed" in a long time.
Everything is 100mph around here and just a lot going on at all times. So I'm burnt out physically AND mentally, then something happens and its like instant rage. Even if I'm by myself I'll ------- hit something for no reason. I always regret it afterwards though.
Maybe I should look into some local MMA. Either knocking the ---- out of someone (legally) or getting my *** beat on a regular basis may do me some good. lol
Everything is 100mph around here and just a lot going on at all times. So I'm burnt out physically AND mentally, then something happens and its like instant rage. Even if I'm by myself I'll ------- hit something for no reason. I always regret it afterwards though.
Maybe I should look into some local MMA. Either knocking the ---- out of someone (legally) or getting my *** beat on a regular basis may do me some good. lol
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