seriously, you cant take any shit like that. I usually carry some "legal" weaponry, a pocket knife, and in my car a 24 inch ratchet extension. Thats just to stay OUT of fights, usually when you have a knife people back down. I would have backed down had I recieved a round house kick to the face though, jesus. Chuck Norris would be proud.

Thats why i carry a peice of steel stock, I was just transporting it when this guy attached me. I just happen to always be carrying it.

a big shiny breaker bar seems to keep people away as well...

One of the things about being a parent is that your life is no longer about YOU anymore. You have a responsibility to someone else other than yourself.

Reading about your incident at the mall, it doesn't sound like you were in any danger or immediate peril. I wonder if you would have behaved the same way if your wife WAS pregnant?

For the sake of your wife and future kid(s), you really should think about mellowing out. After all, what would they do without you if anything were to happen to you?

And what's with all you people getting in fights and carrying around weapons "so as not to get in fights?"

Where the hell do you guys live/what kind of company do you keep that you're constantly in danger of getting in a fight?

I live in the hood

That's scary...ever think maybe you're helping perpetuate a false atmosphere of violence?

probably... but hey it's something to do

Haha, Well ive been carjacked at gun point, and shot at. Im guessing my piece of steel doesnt change or cause that.

exactly... it's more for protection.. its not like I go out and fight people because they are different.. i would rather be prepared to defend myself, then have my car stolen or have my girlfriend taken from me because I couldnt defend myself...
there is nothing wrong with defending yourself...

Believe me I know this...we kinda had it out over the weekend after I found out...It seems we have gotten way more close than weve ever been because of the miscarrige...We do live in a rough neiborhood for now because Its close to my job...I do worry about her more than anything else, I actually put her first than myself...I figure as long as she's doin fine Im ok...She actually gave up her family to be with me, that takes real love, so we married...and life is bliss right now, I'd give my life to save hers. Call me a sap , but im actually happy for once in my life :) .

I guess there is such a thing as true love:bigtu:

It would have been different if my wife was pregnant or I had kids...But I do get your point, It was reckless and irresponsible of me to do that ...But like I said I was aggravated already before that. But seriously you expect me to take be pushed into a wall and have this said to me(you fucking bananna boat spic get you and your white trash slut the fuk out my way) ...:nono: I don give a fuck , his ass was as good as knocked the fuck out!

Aparrently the guy hates puertoricans, Then he has the nerve to make threats (what what , what you going to do spic)...thats all I needed to light the torch :crx: , then while he passes by he has the nerve to try and grab my wifes ass...this is every lil thing that led up to the fight, I avoid confrontation to a point but I was pushed to far, :slap: