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Pitlab77 10-31-2006 07:38 PM

so, what do you do when your GF dumps you???
 
First GF ever dumped me. I feel like S@it. Been going out for 1 3/4 year almost. Was thinking about taking the next step soon "the question". LOL a month ago i caught the garter at a wedding and she caught the bouquet.

Doesnt look like we will mend things this time :(



on another note I signed for an autoX this weekend and I think i will double enter all day an play :bigtu: :bigtu: :bigtu: :bigtu:

Jefe 10-31-2006 07:50 PM

Sorry to hear that, it's never easy.

Maybe take up a new hobby such as investing?

Mach929 10-31-2006 08:30 PM

no it really is never easy when you have a lot of time and money into a relationship and it all seems to disappear on you but if it's really over there isn't much you can do but just keep yourself busy. usually when you least expect it someone totally great will walk into your life and you'll wonder why you were ever so bummed before.

cjernigan 10-31-2006 08:32 PM

Personally, I call up the best looking single girl I can find in my cellphone and go play some pool. Then I figure out my finances, invest in something similar to Jefe's idea or my car and make sure I go out at every chance possible. Almost makes me wish my g/f would dump me every couple months just so i could go out and do that. lol

Atlanta93LE 10-31-2006 08:54 PM

Sounds like it is time to buy a new toy for the Miata.

Markp 10-31-2006 08:55 PM


Originally Posted by Pitlab77 (Post 54207)
First GF ever dumped me. I feel like S@it. Been going out for 1 3/4 year almost. Was thinking about taking the next step soon "the question". LOL a month ago i caught the garter at a wedding and she caught the bouquet.

Doesnt look like we will mend things this time :(



on another note I signed for an autoX this weekend and I think i will double enter all day an play :bigtu: :bigtu: :bigtu: :bigtu:

I feel for you... therapy is available here:

www.plentyoffish.com

Mark

cjernigan 10-31-2006 09:03 PM

Or you should come up to Cookeville and I'll set you up with a wild 6' blond women's NCAA volleyball player that would be more than sufficient in handling just about any man's woes. If that doesn't suffice I know of atleast 3 different Halloween parties going on with all kinds of sexy Nurses, Cops, Stuartesses, Firewomen, and a couple fairies most likely.

Edit: All of those costumes inhabited by beautiful women of course. (Just making sure there is no confusion of interest.)

akaryrye 10-31-2006 09:03 PM

I am 2 months out of a two year relationship. I miss the sex more than probably anything else. we still see eachother from time to time though but we decided to move on. It wasnt as hard as the first long term relationship that ended after a year and a half when she dumped me out of the blue, treated me like shit all of a sudden, and started sleeping around almost immediately. Thing that hurt most was how much of a fool I was to not see her for the bitch she was.

akaryrye 10-31-2006 09:04 PM

Oh yeah, enjoy yo-self. Ive gotten a whole lotta stuff done in the last two months because I finally have time to work on my car.

airbrush1 10-31-2006 11:40 PM

I did a burnout in my ex's driveway at 3 am once, when I was 17.... felt strangely cleansing.....:)

I say forget about it..... it's not worth losing your hair over....

airbrush1 10-31-2006 11:41 PM

or just go for a nice long top down drive at night, and listen to some of YOUR favorite music.... usually calms me down!

F20turbo 10-31-2006 11:51 PM


Originally Posted by cjernigan (Post 54248)
Or you should come up to Cookeville and I'll set you up with a wild 6' blond women's NCAA volleyball player that would be more than sufficient in handling just about any man's woes. If that doesn't suffice I know of atleast 3 different Halloween parties going on with all kinds of sexy Nurses, Cops, Stuartesses, Firewomen, and a couple fairies most likely.

Edit: All of those costumes inhabited by beautiful women of course. (Just making sure there is no confusion of interest.)


LOL. :rofl:

Loki047 11-01-2006 12:44 AM

Id say drive around and spend time with the guys. Spending time with other girls will make you think about her. Go out with the boys and get fucked up.*


*Ive never been dumped so Im guessing

cjernigan 11-01-2006 12:47 AM


Originally Posted by Loki047 (Post 54330)
... get fucked up.


Werd!

akaryrye 11-01-2006 03:52 AM

I went to a powerman 5000 concert tonight and most of the night was kinda boring. Then i met a group of good looking 30 year old ladies (im 23 btw) and was finally enjoying myself and having a good time with them. Then a big guy comes up to me and tells me i cant take em home and fuck em ... WTF???

I guess they were hoes or something, good thing i didnt get the herps or something ... well it would have been fun gettin them. Who knows, I could have been working on getting them now. Damnit ...

Whatev. thats one kind of fun you can have when you are single that you cant when you are not ... shallow, unfulfilling, degrading, and basically the best.

Oh ya, i wouldnt say that on Miata.net by the way

PSS. ya that doesnt have much to do with the thread, but it was somethign i did as a single guy and it was fun

KPate 11-01-2006 04:42 AM

hell just go to the local meat market, have some drinks, find some strange, and knock the bottom out of it....:beer:


Cjer...You said Cookeville, are you up at TTU? Went to school there and lived there for a few years.:cool:

fmowry 11-01-2006 06:54 AM

Look at the bright side. Better now than after you popped the question. (and the bank account on a ring).

Frank

y8s 11-01-2006 10:37 AM

cry and have broken-up sex (I call this the "fu*k-up buddy"). then sleep with ugly women. then swear off women altogether. then date 4 concurrently. then knock that crap off and be single and stumble upon a great girl and date her for a long time.

in other words, dont "do" anything, just live how you feel like living. wear condoms too.

cjernigan 11-01-2006 11:36 AM

Kpate yeah I'm on the Rifle team at Tech. I'm a Junior and a MIT major. I have another year and a half of school. No idea what's after that though.

Dr. Nick 11-01-2006 03:05 PM

Sleep with her sister?

jayc72 11-01-2006 03:17 PM

Find someone that looks just like your ex, fuck her then dump her. This is the classic recipe for getting over someone that dumps you. Have 80's movies taught us nothing? :)

Fritch 11-01-2006 03:20 PM


Originally Posted by y8s (Post 54378)
then sleep with ugly women.

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA

well if you do that, at least the women might feel better. Just make sure nobody is looking lol

Kelly 11-01-2006 03:21 PM

Give it a month. You guys may run into each other. Then its revenge fuck time.....stovepipe style!!!

Philip 11-01-2006 03:57 PM


Originally Posted by Wideopentuning (Post 54434)
Give it a month. You guys may run into each other. Then its revenge fuck time.....stovepipe style!!!

he's too godly for all the fun shit.

Kelly 11-01-2006 04:03 PM

Save up your man sauce for a month or so and sneak into her place and tug it into her hair when she is sleeping?

F20turbo 11-01-2006 04:26 PM

Just have sex with as many girls as possible.

cjernigan 11-01-2006 07:10 PM

Holy crap, didn't know there were so many deranged people on here. No wonder I feel so much at home.

Efini~FC3S 11-01-2006 07:20 PM

go to a strip club with some guy friends, drink beer. Rinse, repeat.

airbrush1 11-01-2006 09:16 PM

best thread evar!!!!!!!!!!

Kelly 11-02-2006 01:08 AM

Maybe try and pound one of her friends?

Fritch 11-02-2006 01:14 AM

mas secks for joo

Snowsurfer03 11-02-2006 02:28 AM

this is gaay. :riaa:

When your girlfriend dumps ya just get in your turbo miata, find a muscle car, and blow his doors off! :bigtu: :bigtu: :bigtu:

KPate 11-02-2006 02:35 AM


Originally Posted by cjernigan (Post 54389)
Kpate yeah I'm on the Rifle team at Tech. I'm a Junior and a MIT major. I have another year and a half of school. No idea what's after that though.

I graduated from tech in Industrial Tech in 98. Heard the school has changed quite a bit sonce I left. Need to get up there sometime and see what all has changed.....

KPate 11-02-2006 02:37 AM


Originally Posted by Wideopentuning (Post 54536)
Maybe try and pound one of her friends?

Done that one time, best revenge evar!!!!!







And it was MUCH better than the girl I got dumped by:naughty:

fmowry 11-02-2006 06:59 AM

I can give you much better advice if you post naked pictures of her. :)

Frank

Mach929 11-02-2006 07:47 AM

haha too funny, no better way to get back at her than posting up some nudes

Markp 11-02-2006 09:37 AM


Originally Posted by KPate (Post 54559)
Done that one time, best revenge evar!!!!!







And it was MUCH better than the girl I got dumped by:naughty:


Only to be eclipsed by doing her mom.

LOL

Mark

jayc72 11-02-2006 10:34 AM


Originally Posted by Mach929 (Post 54572)
haha too funny, no better way to get back at her than posting up some nudes

I like the way you think sir. :werd:

Pitlab77 11-02-2006 11:01 AM

this thread has gott gay lol

m2cupcar 11-02-2006 11:49 AM

we can all pitch in and get pitlab a fleshlight
:cjerk:

y8s 11-02-2006 01:30 PM


Originally Posted by Pitlab77 (Post 54600)
this thread has gott gay lol

ok then... sleep with mens!

:dancegay: :gay: :greddy: :ky: :greddy2:

KPate 11-03-2006 12:27 AM


Originally Posted by Markp (Post 54590)
Only to be eclipsed by doing her mom.

LOL

Mark

Hell no!!! Her mom was in her 50's and I wouldn't stick my dick in that if I was that damn desperate...:td:

Pitlab77 11-03-2006 02:52 PM

things are better. :)

Kelly 11-03-2006 03:44 PM

What did you do? Hopefully a little bit of everything suggested.

Markp 11-03-2006 03:52 PM


Originally Posted by KPate (Post 54764)
Hell no!!! Her mom was in her 50's and I wouldn't stick my dick in that if I was that damn desperate...:td:

It's not about desparation, it's about revenge and depravity. Now, if her mom was nasty, I agree with you... but I have seen one or two very hot 50 year old women. Not often, but enough that it's a possibility. I didn't know how old the GF was either, 25 Y.O. GF and a 45 Y.O. Mom... well, you get the idea. I know a woman who's 35 with a 19 year old daughter... That would certainly be a opportunity for revenge.

Mark

y8s 11-03-2006 04:03 PM


Originally Posted by Markp (Post 54865)
It's not about desparation, it's about revenge and depravity. Now, if her mom was nasty, I agree with you... but I have seen one or two very hot 50 year old women. Not often, but enough that it's a possibility. I didn't know how old the GF was either, 25 Y.O. GF and a 45 Y.O. Mom... well, you get the idea. I know a woman who's 35 with a 19 year old daughter... That would certainly be a opportunity for revenge.

Mark

lets not forget you're not 20 either ;)

and I could see the 35/19 thing working either way. prior to my current gf, the last two women I dated spanned more than 12 years in age difference. sadly, both were too immature.

and neither had a mom/daughter I could seduce...

m2cupcar 11-03-2006 05:02 PM

you need to get those answers before you pick 'em up for the first date ;)

hustler 11-04-2006 09:53 PM

get accustomed to it, this is how the world works. How old are you? I finally learned that I don't need a woman, by any stretch. Frankly I'm too good of a person and am important enough to myself and the rest of the world to get upset because someone doesn't want to be with me. Everyone has thier own list of priorities, and you should rank high enough on it that a woman won't discount your self and or societal worth.

cjernigan 11-04-2006 10:15 PM

Make sure the next one you get likes fast cars. They are usually a little more rough around the edges but atleast she won't give a crap when you spend $600 on a turbo upgrade instead of a Tennis Bracelet.

y8s 11-05-2006 11:08 AM


Originally Posted by cjernigan (Post 55120)
Make sure the next one you get likes fast cars. They are usually a little more rough around the edges but atleast she won't give a crap when you spend $600 on a turbo upgrade instead of a Tennis Bracelet.


That's one idea. There's also the "diamond in the rough" type. For example, my gf knows fairly little about cars and actually works for an organization that does a lot of environmental policy work but she loves the way I drive and that I work on my car. She has no problem with my dumping tons of money into my car and that it wont pass CA smog anymore (not that it needs to since there's a 4 year exemption for new cars! oh and I live in DC with CA plates).

m

cjernigan 11-05-2006 11:12 AM

Sounds like me living in TN with Alaska plates. Doesn't help with the cops though they like to pull over tourists. TN doesn't have smog B.S. though and neither does AK so I'm free and clear to continue running without my cat. Sounds like you have a good woman on your hands. Mine doesn't understand how I could love my car so much and continually wonders why I don't research her as often as I do the Miata.

KPate 11-06-2006 04:05 AM

Old Proverb: If it has tits or tires, it will give you hell.......:werd:

Uncle Arthur 11-07-2006 11:38 PM

The really simple answer is go find some other stuff to do and build a bridge.........

It ain't the end of life as you know it.

ColoradoSpringsMiata 11-08-2006 10:35 PM

lol. sounds odd but if i get fucked over i try to erase all the mushy mushy crap from my mind and think of the ex as just a piece o' booty. helps me out every time. but don't get too carried away :bigtu:

i feel your pain though, really tough thing to get over, but time will heal and when you look back you'll just chuckle and go on about your way. trust me.

oh and one other thing, if/when you happen to get into another relationship... DONT LET THE PREVIOUS ONES DETERMINE HOW THE NEW ONE WILL BE!! i mean we live and learn of course, but what i mean is be as open minded as possible..... i cant remember the quote but its something like "if heartbroken or hurt, live as though you've never loved." i hope that makes some sense to you man, hehe.

jayc72 11-08-2006 10:36 PM

Another thing that you could do is post nakid pictures of her on the internet. That totally works!

KPate 11-09-2006 12:13 AM


Originally Posted by jayc72 (Post 55941)
Another thing that you could do is post nakid pictures of her on the internet. That totally works!

:gay:

Naked pics of her + website+ $40/yr to view = PROFIT$$$$$$$$$


should call her up for one more fling and put it on hidden camera and add that to the website.:ky:


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