TonyV

iTrader: (17)

^best advice yet

boost solves all

l_bader

Is she paying any rent, or is that all on your dime? If she's not paying anything, no worries on kicking her out. A quick stop at the management office should solve that one.

Another bit to consider: any other financial access she might have to *any* of your bank accounts, credit/debit cards, insurance, etc.

When you decide to act: plan first, then don't hesitate or give her time to retaliate. Things can get petty and ugly in a heartbeat...

- L

Turbo_4

iTrader: (6)

she is splitting rent with me, throwing her out cold isn't exactly feasible.

Saml01

iTrader: (9)

So basically you guys are roomates now.

How much time left on the lease?

TonyV

iTrader: (17)

And to add to that, can EITHER of you afford the rent without the other?

Mobius

iTrader: (2)

Finish the turbo project, then between the two of you, at least the engine will be blown.

I was in a very similar situation once. That relationship was not meant to be. It's normal to still have feelings for her. It's normal to be sad about the end of the relationship. But, it's over, and the best thing is to end it and move forward.

Resist the urge to call her. Some relationships end in a way or due to circumstances such that they can be restarted ... this is not one of those situations.

BenR

iTrader: (2)

Maybe she's trying to get you into a 3 way with her new lover.


Rotisserie FTW.

msydnor

iTrader: (3)

If she is on the lease you can't just put her out if she won't leave. You could end up in court owing her money if you did. You could potenially have her evicted but that would take a while. IMO, at this point she is using you for her own purpose now...a place to stay, car, phone etc. I would ask her to move out so you can get a paying roommate. This **** about wanting her own stuff, give her here wish, take the phone car, food etc...put a lock on the damn frig and tell her to get here own food. You want to be own you own, figure it out yourself. Roommates don't support each other, they just share space. Oh, and start dating as soon as possible. The **** about asking her if she is cheating...she will lie anyway so don't even bother.

hustler

iTrader: (6)

sometimes you have to put tips on a bitch.

Fireindc

iTrader: (13)

Make sure to **** her real good one last time, then nut on her face and kick her out.

naarleven

iTrader: (2)

Best advice ever given. But stress that it isn't a hooker. Play on that you just met her at a bar. If she finds out that it's a hooker, it will be too easy for her to just write you off as a dirty man.

One night stand speaks "hes a man women want".

And as fireindc said, make sure to nut on her face ( the ex, not the hooker [but you can do that too])

Turbo_4

iTrader: (6)

Well, I've taken this upon myself to have a new beginning. I did some searching around today and found a nice townhome on the other side of town that I can afford on my own. I talked with my apartment complex and they will take me off the lease if she signs a paper releasing me. I talked with her tonight and since I'm having her stay here she'll sign the paper, whatever as long as I'm out. I also told her the car is coming with me. I should be moving within 45 days so that gives her plenty of time to get her **** in gear.

By the way, she is gone 24/7 now. She is hanging out with "people" all the time. While, I'm upset trying to comprehend this ****, she is out "at the movies" or "at a friends"...etc. Still sounds fishy to me.

Vashthestampede

iTrader: (17)

Thats great to hear man, congrats on getting it together and taking care of ****. Try to spend more time doing something constructive, rather than spending another minute trying to comprehend anything or being "upset". Sounds like you made an awesome first step today dude.

Vash-

18psi

iTrader: (76)

seriously, congrats on working everything out and moving on...**** her, dont even think about her anymore.

y8s

iTrader: (8)

miataturbo forum therapy section is just around the corner.

turbo_4, sorry the girl (she is not a woman) was too low quality for you and dicked you around.

here's to a good solid rebound and quality women in your future.

msydnor

iTrader: (3)

Not fishy at all, she's ******* someone else.

Turbo_4

iTrader: (6)

I figure as much. She's now acting like she doesn't even know me. I know it's a month away but I already started packing tonight.

TonyV

iTrader: (17)

Congrats man...you handled it very well..

And new beginning is def the way you should see this. New place, freedom, etc... Enjoy it man

johndoe

iTrader: (5)

After 7 years of knowing anybody that's fucked up to be treated like that. The good thing for you is that taking the steps you have taken pretty much guarantees a better future for you. Finish the turbo project!!! Nothing relieves stress more than getting into a project and nothing puts a smile on your face like squeezing the boost pedal.

l_bader

Congrats on finding a way out. Just remember to cover your ***(ets)...

- L

(Then throw a killer housewarming party to get to know the new neighbors!)