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Edit: If your not married or haven't been for more than a year, go home!
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lmao, you might as well have written that skit for him.
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nuh uh, dude me and wifey are in looooooooove.
i know this because per C.R., "if you aint never bought a shovel, bought a bag, practiced your aliby in the mirror, and the only thing that stopped you from killing a ************ was an episode of CSI, you aint never been in love"
So I am obviously very much in love thank you very much
i know this because per C.R., "if you aint never bought a shovel, bought a bag, practiced your aliby in the mirror, and the only thing that stopped you from killing a ************ was an episode of CSI, you aint never been in love"
So I am obviously very much in love thank you very much
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You chose wrong.
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lmao, who was that for?
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You just wait and see.
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Whoever chose a wife that made him feel that way. That's why you get to choose one and they aren't just assigned to you. You should choose a wife that wants you to be happy because they aren't selfish and they respect and love you. If you sold yourself short on that one, the horn's for you.
Cliffs: Don't whine if you choose a bitch. You had a choice.
Cliffs: Don't whine if you choose a bitch. You had a choice.
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Whoever chose a wife that made him feel that way. That's why you get to choose one and they aren't just assigned to you. You should choose a wife that wants you to be happy because they aren't selfish and they respect and love you. If you sold yourself short on that one, the horn's for you.
Cliffs: Don't whine if you choose a bitch. You had a choice.
Cliffs: Don't whine if you choose a bitch. You had a choice.
They're ALL like that in the BEGINNING lol.
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The other thing to remember is that most people ignore the warning signs of a bitch when they are dating. Then they wonder why they have one after they marry her. If she is petty and selfish when you are dating, guess what? And if she treats waiters and waitresses like ****, she will do the same to you later. If she is catty and vindictive towards others sometimes, you are next.
If she was raised in a home where the father was not respected by the mother then she will likely not respect you. That behavior was modeled for her as the example of how a family should operate and how the husband (or ex-husband) should be treated. If they always fought, then she might think that fighting is normal between couples. If the father was respected and loved by the mother, then she will more likely expect to do the same for you.
If her parents spoiled her and she got everything she wanted you are fucked. Run away. I don't care how hot she is or how well she gives head. Run.
If she sucks with her own finances she will **** yours, too.
If she is irresponsible don't expect a partner you can count on.
If she's a little heavy, she'll be a lot heavy.
At some point after enough time has passed realism sets in and the fairy tale is exposed as a lie and you are able to get on with creating a better reality instead of escaping from it or searching for it. The searching will ruin you through infidelity. The escaping will ruin you through drink and/or drugs. Building a better reality to wake up in every day will make you happy forever and more successful if you are both working towards it.
I am a better person because she has so much self respect and drive, that it makes me want to be better than I would be on my own. I want to be worthy of her, because she sets the bar so high for herself. And she respects me and wants me to be successful and fulfilled. Some of her friends are jealous of their husbands having a good time. They are selfish bitches. My wife tells me she wants me to enjoy my life and the opportunities I have to do things.
You have a choice. Choose wisely. [/lecture]
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And vice versa. Marriage is a partnership. If you can't compromise on most of the issues (even just agreeing to disagree on some stuff) you won't last.
Being older, I was more sure what I wanted out of life, and what type of person I wanted to spend it with me. I also am a firm believer that when you say a vow, in front of witnesses, you'd better intend to keep it. Part of that vow was for better or worse, until death do us part. I made pretty damn sure I was willing to keep that vow before I made it.
I have to say that so far, it's been a fairly good ride. 13 years and counting.