Girlfriends and their guy friends?
10-02-2006, 12:59 PM
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When it comes to women, you can either run the relationship and enjoy being in control, or get herpes from that ****. If your gf thinks she can run arround and **** the town and you not leave or kill her, then don't even worry about it.
If she's going to cheat, you can't stop her. If she doesn't revere and respect you enough to understand that you will leave her at any time because you are more important to yourself than her, then just expect it.
Have some self respect.
If she's going to cheat, you can't stop her. If she doesn't revere and respect you enough to understand that you will leave her at any time because you are more important to yourself than her, then just expect it.
Have some self respect.
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10-02-2006, 01:51 PM
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Yeah to be honest, most of the serious relationships I've been in both myself and the gf have kind of dumped the "nearest threat" to the relationship. Therefore, I give up my booty call and she gives up her guy "friend". Either that, or I bring out the round house kick.
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10-02-2006, 02:58 PM
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When it comes to women, you can either run the relationship and enjoy being in control, or get herpes from that ****.
If your girlfriend is sluttting around, then you can usually smell it on her. They claim the stinky smell is from Physical Education classes at college. **Brings to mind Shelly Cook when I was in college**
- Boy, was I gullible! I felt hurt and betrayed - Oh, wait a second - I was dorkin a couple other things on the side at the same time! Still - She took advantage of my good nature and used me - BIATCH! :gay:
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10-02-2006, 03:22 PM
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I was a **** when I was younger and never got herpes or any of that GACK! I guess it depends on how far down the barrel you dig.
If your girlfriend is sluttting around, then you can usually smell it on her. They claim the stinky smell is from Physical Education classes at college. **Brings to mind Shelly Cook when I was in college**
- Boy, was I gullible! I felt hurt and betrayed - Oh, wait a second - I was dorkin a couple other things on the side at the same time! Still - She took advantage of my good nature and used me - BIATCH! :gay:
If your girlfriend is sluttting around, then you can usually smell it on her. They claim the stinky smell is from Physical Education classes at college. **Brings to mind Shelly Cook when I was in college**
- Boy, was I gullible! I felt hurt and betrayed - Oh, wait a second - I was dorkin a couple other things on the side at the same time! Still - She took advantage of my good nature and used me - BIATCH! :gay:
I had to tell a girl on friday about some **** like this. She wants me to constantly tell her where to get dinner. I let her know that I would never exclusively decide upon dinner, and if she didn't like that she can gtfo. I don't need a leach.
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10-02-2006, 04:12 PM
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the only friend of hers that might bother me is an ex-boyfriend, but she hates them more than I would. Beyond that her guy friends are mostly guys I know and like, or know and dont care about.
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10-03-2006, 07:24 AM
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you know ive been in the same situation thought i loved this girl infact i was 19 turning 20 just like you. she was actually my first lay too. and told me she was a virgin when i met her i didnt listen to what my friends told me about how bad she was for me, had that feeling she was cheating around, and all the signs pointed to it, But i refused to believe it because "we were in love"
needless to say everyone else was right, she was sleeping around on me.and left me for some other guy. well i ended up going out on the town and spending some time with some girl also made me realize there was no way in hell my ex was a virgin (this girl had been with a few people and compared to her my ex was akin to throwing a hotdog down the hallway)
so i said fsck her and understood to follow your instincts, if it smells like cheating, looks like cheating, sounds like cheating well low in behold its probably cheating
and right now miss find-out-if-the-grass-is-really-greener is kicking herself because she realized i was the best thing she had and she had to ruin it by going out cheating and also about a year after breaking up she got knocked up and now there is NO babys dady to be found... So there is karma in this life
I may sound like a spiteful angry person in this post but im really one of the nicest guys many people have told me they have ever met. i help out anyone i can, act as a listener for anyones problems, hell i even donate to the no kill cat shelter! but no matter how hard i still find it hard to trust. i know i have issues in that area, but hey i would rather be cautious than have my heart broken again..
have you tried talking to her about it. believe me works a hell of alot better than getting in a fight, and a hell of alot easier to explain. a couple of my ex's male friends that were exactally as you explain have been pretty much dispatched by the simple "honey i love you and trust you but this guy gives be a bad feeling, its not you im worried about but being a man i know how we are capable of acting and its not above the average guy to take advantage of a person" type of speech
if you ever need a person with experiance to talk to and most of all wont judge you and poke fun of you like a couple of tools, you can either e-mail me aim me or pm me
needless to say everyone else was right, she was sleeping around on me.and left me for some other guy. well i ended up going out on the town and spending some time with some girl also made me realize there was no way in hell my ex was a virgin (this girl had been with a few people and compared to her my ex was akin to throwing a hotdog down the hallway)
so i said fsck her and understood to follow your instincts, if it smells like cheating, looks like cheating, sounds like cheating well low in behold its probably cheating
and right now miss find-out-if-the-grass-is-really-greener is kicking herself because she realized i was the best thing she had and she had to ruin it by going out cheating and also about a year after breaking up she got knocked up and now there is NO babys dady to be found... So there is karma in this life
I may sound like a spiteful angry person in this post but im really one of the nicest guys many people have told me they have ever met. i help out anyone i can, act as a listener for anyones problems, hell i even donate to the no kill cat shelter! but no matter how hard i still find it hard to trust. i know i have issues in that area, but hey i would rather be cautious than have my heart broken again..
have you tried talking to her about it. believe me works a hell of alot better than getting in a fight, and a hell of alot easier to explain. a couple of my ex's male friends that were exactally as you explain have been pretty much dispatched by the simple "honey i love you and trust you but this guy gives be a bad feeling, its not you im worried about but being a man i know how we are capable of acting and its not above the average guy to take advantage of a person" type of speech
if you ever need a person with experiance to talk to and most of all wont judge you and poke fun of you like a couple of tools, you can either e-mail me aim me or pm me
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10-03-2006, 02:31 PM
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Im with rican. I know how I am with girls, there are no platonic relationships (unless its my best friends girl, off-limits). I dont trust the guys. I know what goes through my mind and Ive done a good job of making my girl realize what guys want is never just friendship. Needless to say she has a million girlfriends and one guy friend who Im pretty sure is gay.
But Im not the nicest guy. I am an *******, ask Roman.
And I dont have alot of friends who are girls just because I know the kind of guy I am and I love my girl too much.
But Im not the nicest guy. I am an *******, ask Roman.
And I dont have alot of friends who are girls just because I know the kind of guy I am and I love my girl too much.
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10-04-2006, 06:05 AM
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the cheating is alot like Chocolate cake...ya ya laugh, But everyone loves cake.. and say your on a diet(relationship) and someone puts the a great looking chocolate cake on the kitchen table... sure you can ignore it but everytime you walk near that counter with that cake sitting there it tempts you, eventually someting happens and you are pissed off/drunk/sad and you walk by that cake and you try a little bite and it goes downhill from there because you know you got away with it and things get out of hand..
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10-04-2006, 08:33 AM
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thats exactally what i mean, you dont know how many times i have had that oppertunity but called her b/f instead to come take care of her...
the cheating is alot like Chocolate cake...ya ya laugh, But everyone loves cake.. and say your on a diet(relationship) and someone puts the a great looking chocolate cake on the kitchen table... sure you can ignore it but everytime you walk near that counter with that cake sitting there it tempts you, eventually someting happens and you are pissed off/drunk/sad and you walk by that cake and you try a little bite and it goes downhill from there because you know you got away with it and things get out of hand..
the cheating is alot like Chocolate cake...ya ya laugh, But everyone loves cake.. and say your on a diet(relationship) and someone puts the a great looking chocolate cake on the kitchen table... sure you can ignore it but everytime you walk near that counter with that cake sitting there it tempts you, eventually someting happens and you are pissed off/drunk/sad and you walk by that cake and you try a little bite and it goes downhill from there because you know you got away with it and things get out of hand..
And as you get older, people leave more and more cake around.
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10-04-2006, 08:39 AM
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OLDERGUY -
Especially when the cake is as old as you!
Young fresh cake is much more tempting to take a piece of :gay:
Great analogy
And as you get older, people leave more and more cake around.
And as you get older, people leave more and more cake around.
Young fresh cake is much more tempting to take a piece of :gay:
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