I'd just take the key out of her fucking had and say get your own fucking car....but I'm a dick

don't be a dumbass, have some dignity. I was a beta male for a long time, then I took control of my life. It would be a cold day in hell before I'd let a girl who's cheating on me borrow my car, live in my apartment, or even converse with me. There are two options, behave like a normal human with me, or act like a trailer-trash whore and stay away from me.

women want a bad-ass dude to fuck them like a warrior and impregnate them; they want a pussy beta-male loser to raise his kids.

You need to be careful and hope this one goes quickly, but remember this post for the rest of your life or this shit will happen over and over until your alone, on your deathbed, while your 90-year old wife is chasing some dude on a cruise ship somewhere.

I can really see my old personality in you man...why don't you come hang-out in Austin with me for a week? We'll eat at cool restaurants, drive miatas, go to bars, and bring home several women. I'll show you what its like when you take control an demand respect.

oh my god hustler is inviting random men to hang out with him again.

:bowrofl:

Why don't you cum over here so I can show you something?

I hate to say it, or I guess admit it to myself but this is what I'm thinking about doing. I was originally going to move out the 13th. Since she has been completely ridiculous, I'm now moving out on the 1st. She still thinks I'm taking the car back on the 13th. Well.........I was just thinking that when it comes to moving out on the 1st, I was just going to take the keys back. As a precaution, I would take a couple relays out so the car can't be driven. I might have been nicer if she hadn't been treating me the way she has the last couple weeks. She is seriously bipolar and I can't take it anymore. I'm out, and the car is coming with me. There is nothing wrong with that. I'm not the jerk here, I'm not the one who wanted to separate!!!!!!!! I have spoiled her ass waaaaaay too much and we ARE NOT together anymore so there is NO reason I have to do ANYTHING. If I want to randomly take the car back early, I can and will. I've already moved most my shit to my moms as a precaution. I just need my furniture out and the car. I'm in the process of changing my bills and address through usps.



rant over

Good god, why didn't you say that in the first place? We would have advised you to sleep with your room locked and wearing a cup.

I dated a bipolar chick for a while. Worst mistake of my LIFE.

Dude. I don't want to call you a pussy, but you find out she's been cheating on you and you still haven't taken all your shit into your possession? The nicest thing I'd do is tell her to give my fucking keys back, then I'd take her to work (to get her out of the appt.) and load all my shit into the car and bounce. Fuck move-out dates. I'd crash at a friend's place for a little while until I found out where I'd be staying (provided I didn't have an appt. picket out yet).

Then she can get a ride back home to find all your shit gone and the services shut off. That's when she'll realize the bitch she's been. And while she's busy trying to call you and apologize (while freezing her nuts off in a cold-ass appt.) you can say, "Yeah, I'd love to chat, but I'm gonna just hang up now. Peace, bitch..."

I dated a bi polar girl once. one of the poles was nymphomania and the other was mine.

I've been down this road...its definitely exciting.

First of all, every women on earth is bipolar, its a product of estrogen.

I think you need to tread carefully here. You need to start thinking ahead. Its time for the car to stop running. I think you should pull/cut a wire to the igniter somewhere behind the dash. Its like that one of the guys she's fucking knows simple car electronics troubleshooting, so when she's stranded with the non-working car while trying to get to the club to get "trained" by 5-black dudes, it could be fixed. This way she may suspect foul play, but you can still maintain neutrality.

Its time to evolve, learn from your mistakes, and be a man. I wish I could find a girl to let me go out and bang every chick I wanted nightly, then have someone who took care of the house, bills, and gave me a car. It would be great, then I'd leave her for someone better, who wouldn't let me treat them like shit.

I say this genuinely, because I was that guy. I dated a girl for a long time who treated me like this, but "I loved her." She finally left me for the guy she was engaged to while we were dating. Today she has huge, bolt-on tits, a sportbike, a turbo s2k, a bunch of expensive shit, several failed divorce attempts, and a boyfriend who gave herpes to she and subsequently her husband. I suggest you get out and change your life, or you'll end up like the guy she married, who was a good friend of mine. Some people have no decency, and they'll exploit any who will let them.

When you've been with someone this long you develop something akin to Stockholm syndrome. You need to punch her in the ----, take your shit and leave. You have complete control over this situation, you just need to take it.

Yes. Chances are you want to be nice, because it'd be better to work things out, rather than do what you really need to do. Have your friends help. Confront her. Tell her how much she sucks and how you really feel. Honestly. You let her know what's up, and you can finally get past this. Then you'll be able to move on... To clubs and chicks that only want a fun night. After enough of those, you'll find one that you like again.

Rinse, repeat (but hopefully not)

The 1st?

Get you and your shit out of there TODAY.

It only gets worse.

My most recent ex was bipolar, I should mention she hot and NUTS in bed. One night playing halo3 online (she was good) I grabbed the sniper rifle and she wanted it. She instantly slapped me across the face as hard as she could! wow...lol! Another night she was screaming in my ear, I mean her mouth touching my ear. I sat there with a smile and didn't respond....she put her teeth around my ear and bit down, trying to bite my fucking ear off. I came very close....

To say the least.....we broke up and I've been single since. :bigtu:

Vash-

My experience was one pole nymphomaniacal and the other one homicidal.

Like my boss says, "All women have snakes in their heads. Some just control them better."

There's no way I can take the car early. Since I signed over the apartment to her if I took the car now I would have to move out now, but I can't move out now since I have no place to go until the 1st. BUT I am definitely getting sick and tired of her bullshit. She has been playing me like a fiddle. I come to find out she's been talking with guys behind my back for at least since early December. It doesn't matter if she physically did anything or not, if you are mentally there you might as well be all the way there. Come the first, if she doesn't want to physically hand me the key, FINE, I know the local towing company and will just have the bitch towed to my new place and have a key made. I think I am also going to go ahead and put some insurance on the car now, just in case she tries to do some shit, I'll be somewhat covered. I guess I just can't believe all this is happening. It's one thing for someone to end things with you because they want to work on themselves...but then to find out they really just wanted out so they could openly be with whoever....fuck that.

Actually if you are still legally on the lease and have an agreement with the apartment people, she can't make you move even if you take your car.

I'm not legally on the lease anymore is what I'm saying. I had myself removed from the lease. I'm not even an occupant. The apartment lady said they would just honor me as an occupant since I'm only going to be here a short amount of time longer.

GET OUT. Get all your shit, get your car, and live it up at Motel6 for a week. GET OUT. GET OUT. GET OUT.

+10000000

It's gonna get worse man. You seriously need to vacate. My ex-fiance had serious issues, too. I could see it coming just like you, and I only wish I had left her sooner. And if she calls you up three months later begging for a second chance because she realized how much she fucked up, tell her to fuck off...because then you'll find out something is going on between her and one of your best friends. Or is that just me, lol?

I tend to agree with you here