Good for you for doing what needed to be done.
I hope the best for you and putting that shit past you most ricky tick |
Originally Posted by Turbo_4
(Post 359598)
I know she said we were over, on a break...but less than 3 weeks later already fucking someone else is kind of much. We still have eachother's names tattoo-ed on the ring finger. I have to find a way to get that covered up. Whatever though. I have my car, I have my shit...I'm moving into my new place probably Friday. I'm trying to talk with a counciler so I can spill my shit and get some closeur. Thanks for everyone's help....definitely a lot better responses than I expected from an online forum. I'll try to post some pics of my new num. 2 miata and the new place after I move and get settled.
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Originally Posted by ScottFW
(Post 359608)
C'mon. Revenge is a dish best served hot & steamy on the internet. :naughty:
But seriously, the idea of letting her parents know what happened has merit. Planting that seed can yield a nice crop of annoyance for the ex in years ahead if her parents had a good opinion of you. Maybe don't show them the pics, just a friendly phone call will do. The last serious girlfriend I had before meeting the wife, we dated for ~3 years. After we broke up I called her house so I could sort out what of her stuff she wanted me to ship back there and what I could throw out, and her dad answered the phone. I told him that his daughter decided that we should finally part ways, but it was really great knowing him & his wife (they were cool and liked me). She was dating some other guy within a few weeks, but for a couple years afterwards I'd hear through a mutual friend of ours that her parents were still giving her shit for breaking up with me. :bowrofl: That kind of revenge leaves you with a clear conscience and occurs over time like Chinese water torture. Not sure if this has been mentioned yet in this thread, but it's worth hearing for all you younger guys: women have wild oats to sow as well. In fact in many primate species, the females are more promiscuous than males. You could have the best mangina and be the best he-bitch in the entire man-stable, but when chicks hit their early-mid 20s many of them decide they want to experience 37 dicks, or at least >1. Just the way it is, nothing you can do about it. If I had learned this earlier in life I would have given up on virgins a lot sooner than I did, and saved myself considerable stress. You don't need to settle down with an ex-whore who hangs loose like sleeve of wizard, but a girl who at least knows what she's doing isn't a bad thing. The main differene between men and women when it comes to cheating is they are better at it. They lie better and they manipulate better |
Originally Posted by BenR
(Post 359612)
You realize tattoos are the death sentence for a relationship.
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Originally Posted by ScottFW
(Post 359608)
Not sure if this has been mentioned yet in this thread, but it's worth hearing for all you younger guys: women have wild oats to sow as well. In fact in many primate species, the females are more promiscuous than males. You could have the best mangina and be the best he-bitch in the entire man-stable, but when chicks hit their early-mid 20s many of them decide they want to experience 37 dicks, or at least >1. Just the way it is, nothing you can do about it. If I had learned this earlier in life I would have given up on virgins a lot sooner than I did, and saved myself considerable stress. You don't need to settle down with an ex-whore who hangs loose like sleeve of wizard, but a girl who at least knows what she's doing isn't a bad thing. |
Turbo_4, glad to see you handle that as well as you did. I would've flipped out and destroyed something had I run across pictures like you did. It'll take a bit, but eventually you'll realize that your life is good again.
Wow, is it just miata drivers that have shit luck with women or is this universal among men? Seriously, I've seen forums about stuff like this with less stories. |
All men. I think women can be more open about pursueing their sexuality now adays and then there are those that take it too far with a sense of entitlement about getting theirs. It really dissapoints me when I see supposedly "liberated" women just taking on the worst traits of men as if it was now their right to do so.
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Where the hell do all you guys find these virgins??? You must be young and from small towns or something.
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Originally Posted by johndoe
(Post 359684)
All men. I think women can be more open about pursueing their sexuality now adays and then there are those that take it too far with a sense of entitlement about getting theirs. It really dissapoints me when I see supposedly "liberated" women just taking on the worst traits of men as if it was now their right to do so.
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Originally Posted by messiahx
(Post 359670)
Wow, is it just miata drivers that have shit luck with women or is this universal among
men? Seriously, I've seen forums about stuff like this with less stories. There are millions and millions of people in the world, who's next? |
Originally Posted by hustler
(Post 359767)
There are millions and millions of people in the world, who's next? Good to hear man. I haven't check this thread in awhile but I'm happy to see that you finally got it. Just sucks it was the cell phone pictures that had to do it. Seriously man, now that your out don't look back. As long as you have all your shit you're good to go. You can only learn from this experience. Keep your head up dude! :) Vash- |
Keep moving. Pour yourself into a project. Focus on something intently.
Good luck. |
She basically did everything I figured she would. Sorry to hear it.
Glad to hear that you kicked her out. I started to type a lengthy, pissed off reply about how much of a bitch your ex is and what you needed to do. I deleted it. There is always another chick. |
when there's girls who look like this, driving cars like this, you have something to strive for:
http://i40.tinypic.com/21c9phc.jpg http://farm4.static.flickr.com/3113/...026f1bc9_b.jpg |
wow, I too am surprised at how well this thread has gone....you are all assholes, but can help a brother out when needed:D
good luck turbo4, you did the right thing. |
Moral of the story: Fuck bitches and get a Lotus.
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Things still seem to be go for moving Friday. The sooner the better, sleeping on the floor at my moms isn't too much better than the apartment I just came from.
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Originally Posted by johndoe
(Post 360241)
Moral of the story: Fuck bitches and get a Lotus.
Hey! Do us a favor and let us know if/when she calls you up wanting to make things work. I think that's the only thing that could make this better. Just let us know. That's all I ask. |
Originally Posted by Turbo_4
(Post 360327)
Things still seem to be go for moving Friday. The sooner the better, sleeping on the floor at my moms isn't too much better than the apartment I just came from.
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Originally Posted by msydnor
(Post 359625)
The main differene between men and women when it comes to cheating is they are better at it. They lie better and they manipulate better
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