female probs.....longwinded rant inside!!!
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learn to read...he said IF this was a two week relationship.
I dunno, just chill out, wait to see what happens, if things can't be smoothed over maybe its best to just call it quits and not get drawn into it even deeper.
I dunno, just chill out, wait to see what happens, if things can't be smoothed over maybe its best to just call it quits and not get drawn into it even deeper.
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I'm in a lucky position that all of my girlfriends family LOVES me and my mom and dad really like her..her and my mom are both artist and she wants to be an art teacher like my mom is so they have things in common...plus shes cute and can shoot riffles and drive a tractor...so my dad approves
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not if you roll like phillip......
https://www.miataturbo.net/forums/sh...ghlight=cobray
i'm sorry that wasn't cool.....but seriously...
thanks again guys...even though i still haven't really decided what im doing yet, atleast i kooled down a little through all this.
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well, i dont really wanna go at her too much, especialyl since my girl reads this forum almost as often as i do.....believe it or not.......but her mom is definetely not all there, i haven't filled you guys in on a 1/10th of the **** that's goen on with her.....
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#32
lol Ive been with my girlfriend for 12-|2| years now, we broke up in the middle for a few years. but we started dating when I was 16.
take my advice, ditch her now. lol, 2 years isnt ****.
you'll forget about her and talk about this experience with your next girlfriend like its ancient history
take my advice, ditch her now. lol, 2 years isnt ****.
you'll forget about her and talk about this experience with your next girlfriend like its ancient history
#36
A wise man once said if yuo ove something let it go and then you will see if it returns. In the end though you just need to give space and time and see where you both end up. Just becouse you split once doesnt mean you might not get thrown in the mix together agian. The bond of th eonly remaining parent though strained can put alot of stress on the girl and even if she totally despises the company and existance of her mother for doing things to make her feel inferior, and all together a failure. She is still the mother and it is still her house, no matter what until your Girl goes psycho enough to take her out it will always be so until they get distance and time from each other. It is a vicous cycle, just hope you find someone you care about and where meant to be with and try not to make the same mistakes with your kids. GL man i dont envy your position.
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all you can do is be supportive. you can't change her family.
either she'll straighten things out and you're set
she'll move out and you're set
or she'll be too hard to reconcile with and you'll find out that long distance relationships only work when they're well-established and have no hurdles.
that said, at least you wont feel guilty when you flirt with the ladies in VA Beach.
either she'll straighten things out and you're set
she'll move out and you're set
or she'll be too hard to reconcile with and you'll find out that long distance relationships only work when they're well-established and have no hurdles.
that said, at least you wont feel guilty when you flirt with the ladies in VA Beach.