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02-27-2007, 02:20 AM

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I wanted to play devils advocate on this one but we only know her by what you've posted. I see YOU stood beside her during some of the most difficult parts of her life and she, what, felt bad when your diff blew?!? OK you got two years but is that two years of making her feel better about herself? What are we missing?

Damn Mark, don't you have your Phd in psych? Shouldn't you be playing Dr. Drew now?

Hell, I'll try...Ruger988, is there something in your own life that would cause you to be attracted to such a chaotic relationship? Any similar chaotic periods in your own childhood?

02-27-2007, 07:09 AM

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Originally Posted by Newbsauce

I had a long distance relationship at 18 and I went to college, my gf was still in HS. Anyway I drove my turbo GSX about 300 miles all the time to see her (round trip). In the end, it didnt work out, which in retrospect does not shock me cause I was 18. So what do I have to show for it? A ton of wasted time and about 50k miles on my GSX which I had to sell for its high *** mileage.

I pulled more *** from 18-21 then ever and I never regretted it. Even at 24 I look back and I'm like.. "wow thats alot of ***". The initial pang of missing her will soon fade. Don't sweat it, I would say you have a 5% chance of the person you meet before like.. age 21 being a future wifey. Theres so much that happens in your life from like 18-24.

I pulled a fair bit of *** from 18-20 but you'd be surprised at how much tail there is at 40! Makes my late teens look like pre-school. Don't settle too early, there is a lot to experience out there and most women aren't very forgiving about some on the side... unless you get very lucky.

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02-27-2007, 07:14 AM

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Win win! She isn't knocked up and you didn't have to break up with her. Think about it this way, how many people in their 40's and 50's do you know that are married to the person they were with when they were 17-18 years old? Enjoy, for today you've dodged a bullet.

LOL, Ya I am married to the girl I married at 23, She was 19 and I am now 40. I think that I am the exception to the rule though and yes, she was a virgin when I met her to top it off... as someone said, "It pays to be first." At least sometimes it does.

ARGA - I am working towards a Ph.D. in Psych, I don't have one. As for playing Dr. Drew, this guy needs to get some more experience with some different (and hopefully more sexually satisfying women) to realize that you never know who will blow your socks off. Unfortunately the ones who are the best/craziest in bed are often the craziest in life as well. A true double edged sword that cuts both ways. This guy (and every guy) should not sell himself short... You'd be amazed at the women who really want to sleep with you. I'm not pretty but I still get 20 somethings wanting to **** me senseless, have some confidence and realize that the best is still ahead.

Mark

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02-27-2007, 08:33 AM

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Unfortunately the ones who are the best/craziest in bed are often the craziest in life as well. A true double edged sword that cuts both ways.

OMG, that is the truth!

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02-27-2007, 09:43 AM

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I wasted my first 3 years of college being depressed over a girl. I hate to do this, but somebody must. You only live once. Never again in your life will you have access to so many college girls. Do it now before you have to lease a $60k german car to get attractive women to play with you. You must sexor every woman you see.I'm about to go back to grad school, just so I can chase women again, and I'm only 26.
Its just a girl. Do you plan on marrying this girl? Do you really think that fighting with this situation is more enjoyable than trolling for ****** for the next 4 years?

Don't screw up these years, because you will never have so little responsibility, and so much ***** in your face again.

YEP, THERE IS ALWAYS GRAD SCHOOL! THE ***** DOUBLES WHEN THEY FIND OUT YOU'RE GETTING A Ph.D. LMAO!

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02-27-2007, 10:23 AM

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MarkP, The Dr. Drew comment was meant as a joke. I admire the hell out of you for getting your PhD. I could barely stomach undergrad work.

Ruger988, I was somewhat serious, though. I went for the wounded bird a lot when I was young. Maybe that's not what your doing but it's what it sounds like.

03-01-2007, 06:29 AM

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Originally Posted by olderguy

Everyone does. The way you think about them just depends on who fucked over who at the time

Sigh.......the great wizdom of OLDERGUY. I totaly agree by the way!
You will always have that special place in your heart for your "high school sweetheart". My advice is to just take a break and try not to be so serious for a while. Just have fun and be a kid while you still can!

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